Showing posts with label Personal. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Personal. Show all posts

Saturday, 9 August 2014

4 things to do when you have your braces removed

I have had braces for over 2 years now (they weren't meant to be on for this long!), so they are due to be removed very shortly. In my anticipation, I've been thinking about what I'd like to do when the time comes. Here are a few of them, illustrated by a handful of gifs that I really couldn't resist including.

1. Eat candyfloss (without feeling too guilty).
 Not that candyfloss is the most common of snacks, but whenever I see it I always think how much of a bad idea it would be to scoff the entirety of this sugar-rich treat with my #braceface situation. It's just nice to have the option! Actually, this applies with pretty much all food. 






Plus, no more days in agony after a 'tightening up' appointment, eating nothing but mashed potatoes. 


2. Take photos to compare with your 'before'/'during' photos (assuming you've taken some) to see how much your teeth have improved. Seeing the transformation before your eyes will prove that it was worth the tedious wait. Plus, laugh nostalgically and victoriously at the fact that you used to look like Jaws from James Bond, because that's quite an achievement.


3. Persevere with your retainer. This will make sure your fantastic new smile STAYS fantastic. Abandoning it before the recommended time period will just mean that those years you've spent with braces were more or less wasted. Don't lose all that hard work! 

4. SMILE!
When I first had my braces, I have to admit I struggled to figure out how to smile without drawing too much attention...


It didn't always go to plan...

However, whilst having braces you shouldn't be at all disheartened to grin as much as you feel like. But it's a massive relief and sense of freedom to know that you can show off your fabulous new smile to everyone once the process is completed.



Personally, I think I'll smile as often and as wide as I can  in order to ensure every one notices/compliments my new set of chompers. Even if I look on the edge of lunacy (I definitely will).





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Sunday, 3 August 2014

House/garden inspiration: My grandma's house

Seeing as my grandma and I are both pretty much deranged with idleness (her with sortof-semi-retirement and me with my summer-holiday-with-no-job blues), lately we have been spending many warm afternoons in each other's company. I took advantage of this opportunity to snap some sneaky photos of her fantastic garden and house, which gifted me and my sister many many adventurous days during our childhood. Forget The Secret Garden (although I adore that book), this garden is the absolute business.

Features (in order of appearance):
  • The garden shed
  • Her lovely conservatory (which we often pronounce as 'con-serve-ah-twar', i.e. the misuse of the word 'conservatoire', because we are Welsh/English folk and therefore use french ironically)
  • A tree bench (minus the tree)
  • Her new front loveseat area
  • Some flowers in full bloom
  • A pretentious Roman bust (are all busts Roman? are all busts pretentious? My grandmother is neither, btw)
  • An rusty old bicycle-turned-flowerpot
  • A handcrafted birdfeeder area (that's safe from cats etc, but allows the birds to come and go freely through the mesh)
  • A pond that homes dozens of fish (years ago there was a stepping stone going across this pond, much to the delight of my younger self)








Thanks for reading,
hope everyone's having a great August so far.

P.S. Why not check out some of my other summertime captures here



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Saturday, 19 July 2014

7 things I've learned from my first year of uni

I've recently finished my first year of university. I have loved the experience and am thankful to say that I have met some amazing friends. Admittedly my viewpoint is fairly limited because I'm still living at home as I study locally, so I can't give you much of an insight into the living/moving away aspect of it, but I still think there are some valuable things that I can share. I've listed (in no particular order) some random things I've learned and, in retrospect, aim to improve for next year. Most of them are quite obvious but should nevertheless not be overlooked. This is a fairly lengthy post but stick with me!

1) Ask, ask, ask - ask as many questions as you want to, regardless of whether you think they're 'silly' or too obvious. It's best to ask and know now rather than be stuck on something simple later on.

2) Don't waste seminars - Depending on your degree, lectures are information-rich and great, but I think seminars are what you're really paying for. They're much more intimate than lectures which can sometimes include hundreds of students, so don't waste these invaluable opportunities with the experts. Seminars can be awkward if nobody speaks! Ask for advice on that recent assignment you've been confused with, get some practice in, get yourself involved if you can.

3) Take advantage of Book Lists - If you are lucky enough to have the book list available before you start the course, then fantastic. You'll know if it's a heavy one or not, and if so, I would definitely suggest starting it before the course begins, even if it's just 15 minutes of reading every evening during the week before class begins, or a few chapters here and there. It saves so much stress and time if you gradually tackle the books rather than having a panicked frenzy the night before a book is addressed in class.


4) Consider a dictaphone - These are a godsend for days where you really don't feel like making notes at 127mph, plus they're so ideal as revision tools and something to go back to if you didn't quite understand a lecture the first time around. Some people buy actual dictaphones but the built-in iPhone 'Voice Memos' app worked perfectly for me. Other apps are available - if you want something more professional, perhaps Super Note would be more suitable, or if money isn't a barrier Dictate + Connect is highly rated. Don't forget to name and date the recordings after each class (i.e. date/class/topic) - trust me this saves a lot of fuss and confusion!


5) Enjoy your social life! - a dominant one for most, but for people who aren't that keen on or familiar with these situations/meeting new people/partying/etc it can be daunting. Although I did join a couple of societies, one of which I enjoyed and got involved in considerably, one of my regrets/aims for next year is to get involved with more of the social side of uni. After all, university is supposed to be a UNIVERSAL experience, only part of it being academic. Though keep in mind that socialising doesn't necessarily have to mean hardcore partying if it's not your thing (if it is though - fab); me and my friends usually have a laugh over a meal/day out etc.

6) This includes making the most of the time with your friends. Most of the friends that I've made in uni this year actually live pretty locally, so in a way I'm quite lucky that we can still catch up throughout the summer. However, for most people in uni you will be saying goodbye to your friends for the summer while they (and you) go home to families. I have at least 4 months off from uni so make some memories with your friends during term-time while you have the chance! One thing that I underestimated was how fast this first year has gone - it has absolutely flown by.

7) Relax - This one is important for fellow worriers out there. Please don't stress yourself out! By all means try hard but don't have a break down for god's sake. Many first year courses don't count towards your final grade, and while this doesn't mean they aren't beneficial, consider this year as a period of trial and improvement and for gathering all the tools you need to tackle your further years. I struggle with stress/anxiety and am not ashamed to note that I actually attended a few classes/workshops held by the wellbeing services regarding controlling it, so if you feel that would help you, go for it. It's such an obvious fact but a lot of people (including myself!) forget that the only way to "better yourself" is to MAKE MISTAKES and address these mistakes directly, in order to see how to handle things better next time.

Lastly........ENJOY! Like I said, it will go so so quickly (my sister would know a thing or two about this - she graduated a few days ago), so make the experience count :)

Proud moment...me and my sister at her graduation, 16/07/2014 
Hope this is helpful! Any questions are welcome, and good luck to all you almost-freshers. You'll be fine.

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Saturday, 5 July 2014

What DO I carry in my bag?

I can be extremely over-cautious when it comes to the contents of my bag - part of my 'prepare for every situation' mentality - but these days I'm more of a simple gal, especially when it comes to smaller bags where you don't really have the space to fuss.

Sometimes I read other peoples' 'What's in my bag?' features and I just think No way do you carry some of that stuff around! ...Seven shades of lip gloss?!  - so I'm personally going to be as realistic as I can for this.


Glasses / A book - I wouldn't be allowed this luxury in a small bag like the one above, but I do like to bring a book so I always have something to do if I have a little bit of time on my hands. My current fixation is Morrissey's AutobiographyPurse / Mini hand cream - gotta look after those hands! This Soap & Glory one is so velvety and smells good enough to eat (but I won't of course)  / Vaseline - I'm addicted to it / Phone and cover case - got this from Etsy recently, along with the bag / Pen - honestly don't know why I carry this, there aren't many situations when I have needed a pen on demand.

Also:  Hairclips - an absolute must for my Medusa-eque do / Earphones / Mini deodorant/body spray - not so relevant for today (rain!!), but the past few weeks have been BOILING and there's nothing wrong with a little preparation for when the sun is sweltering you! / KeysSnacks - usually these (they're delicious and taste like sweets except are 100% fruit!) or something more a bit more naughty and/or chocolatey! Some say it's bad to carry food around with you but I regret to say I disagree!

I'm sure I've forgotten something but there you go. No doubt a uni edition will be coming in Sept/Oct in preparation for my new term!

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Friday, 20 June 2014

Eyeopener #02: How tea hinders rather than helps you

“Dad was at his desk when I opened the door, doing what all British people do when they're freaked out: drinking tea.” ― Rachel HawkinsDemonglass
As you can see, the belief in tea as the Cure is nothing new, you only have to watch an episode of Eastenders or Corrie (where they are continuously “putting the kettle on” and offering each other a “nice cup of tea” after a crisis) to know of its powers to resolve any situation.

If you knew me well, then my love for a good old cuppa is hardly a secret. I can drink around 10 cups a day if I’m at home, and can’t wake up properly without one. Yet, when people advise you to watch what you drink, you assume they’re referring to alcohol. This isn’t necessarily the case. Hot drinks such as tea and coffee can also be harmful, particularly regarding your mood. 

Too much caffeine used to give me migraines but it can also mimic the symptoms of stress, such as anxiety, problems with sleeping, and a faster breathing rate. So if these problems sound familiar to you, ask yourself whether your caffeine intake may be fueling your problems rather than consoling or aiding them.  

What do I do now?
I can share a few things that I do that have helped me considerably:
  •  I didn’t cut out all caffeine/tea immediately (yes you can even have withdrawal symptoms with caffeine) – but gradually.
  • I have a personal rule: If it’s AM I drink caffeinated tea, and if it’s PM then I switch to decaf. I’m quite flexible about it mind – I don’t turn into the Gestapo after 11.59 or anything.
There are actually some pretty nice decaf teas...
My faves:

I hope I haven’t put a negative tone to the fun of all you wild teapartiers – like with everything, moderation is key.


Photo 1 this post belongs to Danielle at cupofloveliness.blogspot.com. This post is merely my own opinion.

Thursday, 12 June 2014

Uni summer ball 2014


So me and my friends went to our first uni Summer Ball (more like music/funfair event) on Monday. We regretfully haven't been to many student events at all as most of us don't live on campus, though that's no excuse (a personal aim for next year!), so I knew that it may be a bit of a 'in the deep end' moment as it is the biggest student event in Wales. Tickets were £40 each so we were hoping for something pretty grand and many acts such as Scouting for Girls were headlining.

We arrived a while after it started and after going on a few rides ( i love rollercoasters/rides, the bigger the better!!) we realised that we had paid to stand in a field and chat/drink. Ok, this actually sounds quite fun, but call me an idiot I can do this almost everywhere and anywhere if I chose to. You can already guess that we didn't stay for long. We did give it a chance and it just didn't seem like our scene, so we didn't see much point in staying for much longer in a situation that we weren't really enjoying. However, I think if we had come later - perhaps 8.30 or 9pm, then it could have been excellent (I've heard and seen many many positive comments from other attendees), but we just didn't fancy waiting hours just for the sun to go down (the dark outdoors is somehow more fun don't you think?) and for them to start playing some good music.

Oh My Love playsuit, £40 incl. student discount.
Wore with denim jacket & purple Doc Martens. 
I must also add that my day didn't start very well either - I discovered actor Rick Mayall, from a great comedy show that I like had passed away that morning, plus my friend had a dress catastrophe after an hour's wear (although thankfully unnoticeable with a jacket on!)

Here's what we did instead: Ditched the 'ball' and went into town and decided to have an Italian at Frankie and Benny's. I had Penne Arrabbiata which was stunning because I loveeeeee olives (despite not realising how much chilli the meal would would involve!), plus delicious Mango sorbet for dessert. I also had a tea (because I'm hardcore) and the waiter joked to me 'you're on the hard stuff tonight then?' when he brought it over :P - It's strange because with some friends I'm more confident/chatty WITHOUT a 'proper' drink that I could possibly be with other people even WITH drink (does that make sense? Probably not)

Basically we spent ages in there and had such a laugh. Cheesy to say this, but it really does come down to the people you're with and not the event itself.

I don't think the ball was BAD - like I said I've heard great comments about it and I'm sure most people genuinely enjoyed. It's all about preference at the end of the day. I think it would have been really fun if somehow we had persevered until the later events occurred/gone later or if it started later and cut out the rubbish early events/we were in a bigger group/didn't still feel like nervous freshers - haha!

Ultimately though, it was a great day and end to our first year at uni. All that's left to do is to collect our results - fingers crossed!

What was your end-of-term uni/school event like?

Danielle x

All photos in this post belong to Danielle at cupofloveliness.blogspot.com

Monday, 2 June 2014

Hay Festival 2014




Book art at the festival
I was so excited to go to this years Hay Literature & Arts Festival in Hay on Wye in Wales this year, even if it was just for 1 (Friday, Day 7) out of the 10 days in which it runs for. Book + food + music = my perfect day out so you could say I was in my element. Indeed, this festival has been visited by many familiar faces in the past including Rowan Williams, Carol Ann Duffy, Boris Johnson, Bono, Bill Clinton, and there were many additions to the list this year such as Benedict Cumberbatch(!!), Dame Judi Dench, Steve Coogan, Jacqueline Wilson, Stephen Fry, Paloma Faith, and more.

This was my first year attending the festival and, although most of the events were sold out because I hadn't booked in advance, I still had a really fantastic day!

Interior of one of the book shops 

Personal highlights/+:

  • Discovering the bookshops around Hay on Wye, famous as the 'Town of Books'. In short walking distance I went in about ten, and they were all so original and quirky, especially in their decor. I also thought it was funny that many of them had a 'No Kindles allowed' policy (I daren't mention I had one in my bag that I used for the journey up!)
  • Book signings! There are about 10 book signings throughout each day, open to everyone. 
  • Being in the audience of the One Show filmed live from the festival. Funny being near something I watch regularly.
  • The shuttle bus was only £1 for an all-day ticket. A great perk to the day as I pay at least £4 in my city.

Cons/-

  • Parking! Took us a while to find a parking space but in the end we had a bit of luck and landed a space in a field directly opposite the entrance!
  • Food prices - although I'm sure there were other, more reasonable venues to eat at, we were forced into a place where two salads and two pots of teas cost over £25 which we thought was just crazy.

I will DEFINITELY be coming back next year and do the whole 'festival experience' properly, perhaps camping and all. It's really not something to miss out on as a book enthusiast and recommend everyone goes at least once! 


Snapshots!*



       
        Poetry book shop in Hay on Wye                                                             Hundreds of Penguin Classics

Filming of the BBC One Show

Books everywhere!

Danielle x

All images in this post belong to Danielle at cupofloveliness.blogspot.com